Anyone who believes in ifs and buts lives in past and spoils his present and future. It's correctly said that past failures should never affect your present and future. We all are blessed to be in a generation where there are various opportunities to work on. So even you faced failure at some part of time in the past why to think about ifs and buts. We often hear people saying if this would have not happened than I would have won or something similar and this makes that person more negative even about future.
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There are two types of things because of which you may face failure one is weakness and other is threat. The words may sound similar but are different. Weakness means your internal fault which was the reason for your failure. Threats are the external problems which lead you to failure. For example if you fail in exam due to your writing speed than you faced failure because of your internal weakness but if you failed because the exam got shifted before than you faced failure because if threat around. Generally the terms ifs and buts are used when someone faced failure due to external threats. One should understand that the external situation changes every time and varies from person to person but then also with your strengths and your presence of mind you could have faced it. Never to regret about your past and live in present.
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Rather than using terms like ifs and buts learn from your mistakes which you have incurred in the past. The past was history and your future is a mystery but your present efforts can make the mystery great for you. Just a single question to you all 'what you all get from discussing ifs and buts?' The answer to this question as per me is nothing other than negativity for future work and regret. Knowing the fact that this both the things are very harmful take a pledge from today you will never discuss ifs and buts.
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To conclude in single line' Learn to live in present and never use the deadly words ifs and buts fight with them Knowing the mistakes in past for a brighter future.' If you really got motivated than do like share and follow me if you want to read such content ahead.
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